told my dad and he just went quiet for a second then said 1993, that's the whole reason we still have elections. had to look up what he meant but ok, respect.
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Abdul Waheed Kakar was a Pakistani general who served as the fifth Chief of Army Staff of the Pakistan Army from January 1993 until his retirement in 1996. He is best remembered for the part he played in the constitutional crisis of 1993, when he secured the resignations of both…
Abdul Waheed Kakar was a Pakistani general who served as the fifth Chief of Army Staff of the Pakistan Army from January 1993 until his retirement in 1996. He is best remembered for the part he played in the constitutional crisis of 1993, when he secured the resignations of both President Ghulam Ishaq Khan and Prime Minister Nawaz Sharif and opened the way to fresh general elections, without the army taking power itself.
Born on 23 March 1937 into a Pashtun family of the Kakar tribe, with roots in Zhob in Balochistan and later settled in Peshawar, he was a nephew of Abdur Rab Nishtar, one of the founding figures of Pakistan. He studied at Edwardes College in Peshawar, joined the army in 1956, trained at the Pakistan Military Academy in Kakul and was commissioned into the Frontier Force Regiment in 1959.
He fought in the wars with India in 1965, at Chawinda, and in 1971, as brigade major in the Sulemanki sector. He later stood first at the Command and Staff College in Canada, studied at the Armed Forces War College of the National Defence University, commanded the 27th Azad Kashmir Regiment, and served as chief of staff of II Corps in Multan. He went on to command the 16th Infantry Division in Quetta, served as Adjutant General at General Headquarters and, from 1989, commanded XII Corps in Quetta.
In January 1993, after the sudden death of General Asif Nawaz, President Ghulam Ishaq Khan chose Kakar as army chief, passing over several more senior lieutenant generals; he had already been listed for retirement. When the bitter standoff between the president and the prime minister threatened to paralyse the state that year, Kakar brokered an arrangement under which both men resigned in July 1993. Senate chairman Wasim Sajjad became acting president, a caretaker government held elections, and Benazir Bhutto returned as prime minister. The approach became known as the "Kakar model". In 1995 a plot by a group of officers led by Major General Zahirul Islam Abbasi to seize power was uncovered and the conspirators were arrested. Kakar retired in 1996, reportedly declining an extension, and afterwards lived a very private life in Rawalpindi.
Abdul Waheed Kakar died in Rawalpindi on Monday 26 October 2026, aged 89. His death was announced by Inter-Services Public Relations. President Asif Ali Zardari, Prime Minister Shehbaz Sharif and Field Marshal Syed Asim Munir expressed their sorrow, and the army paid tribute to his distinguished military career, leadership and services to the Pakistan Army.
Biography adapted from Wikipedia (CC BY-SA 4.0), Radio Pakistan, Geo News and The Express Tribune (26 October 2026), ISPR statement. Wikipedia ↗

your dad's right, the 93 thing is a big deal here