Only came across his story this year, a podcast about hidden children of the Holocaust while I was weeding the garden. The line about his nanny, that she risked her life and saved his, stuck with me all afternoon. Wish I'd known of him sooner.
Their story
Abraham H. Foxman, known to almost everyone as Abe, was a child survivor of the Holocaust who became one of the most recognisable Jewish leaders in the world. For 28 years, from 1987 to 2015, he was national director of the Anti-Defamation League (ADL), and he spent his entire 50-year…
Abraham H. Foxman, known to almost everyone as Abe, was a child survivor of the Holocaust who became one of the most recognisable Jewish leaders in the world. For 28 years, from 1987 to 2015, he was national director of the Anti-Defamation League (ADL), and he spent his entire 50-year career at the organisation. Some jokingly called him "the Jewish pope", because presidents sought his counsel, antisemites sought his absolution, and popes and prime ministers welcomed and argued with him.
He was born Avraham Chanoch Hanach Fuksman on 1 May 1940 in Baranovichi, then a Polish town recently annexed by the Soviet Union and today part of Belarus. He was the only son of Polish Jewish parents, Yelena and Iosif Fuksman. After the Nazi invasion of Poland his parents fled to Vilnius, and when the Nazis took that city too they entrusted the toddler to his Polish Catholic nanny, Bronisława Kurpi. She had him baptised, gave him the name Henryk Stanisław Kurpi and raised him as a Catholic in Vilnius. His parents survived against the odds, but Kurpi did not want to give the boy up, and it took bitter court battles before he was restored to his family. Fourteen members of his family were murdered in the Holocaust. Foxman never hated his rescuer. "She risked her life," he said. "She saved my life."
The family emigrated to the United States in 1950. Foxman attended the Yeshivah of Flatbush in Brooklyn, earned a bachelor's degree in political science from the City College of New York, graduating with honours in history, and took a law degree from New York University School of Law. He also did graduate work in Jewish studies at the Jewish Theological Seminary and in international economics at The New School. As a young man he was a counsellor at Herzl Camp in Webster, Wisconsin, where he met his future wife, Golda, and where one of his campers was the future New York Times columnist Thomas Friedman.
Foxman joined the ADL in 1965 on the legal staff and rose through the ranks, leading its Middle Eastern affairs and then its international affairs work. In 1987 he became national director, succeeding Nathan Perlmutter. That same year President Ronald Reagan appointed him to the council of the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum, and later presidents reappointed him. Under his leadership the ADL grew from a division of B'nai B'rith into what the Jewish Telegraphic Agency called a "muscular juggernaut", running anti-bias education and training, a formidable research operation tracking extremists and white supremacists, annual audits of antisemitic incidents and polling on antisemitic attitudes, and campaigns for anti-discrimination and hate crime laws through a network of regional offices.
He was quick to condemn and, to the surprise of many, quick to forgive. He accepted apologies from figures as different as Jimmy Carter, Glenn Beck and John Galliano, arguing that "if you don't let them change, then you become the bigot." He was far less forgiving of Mel Gibson, whose film The Passion of the Christ he attacked in 2003 and 2004. His positions often drew fire. He was criticised for opposing a congressional resolution recognising the Armenian genocide in 2007, a stance he partly reversed and later said he anguished over, and for opposing the Park51 Islamic centre near Ground Zero in 2010. He also championed gay rights and immigrant rights, which put him at odds with some Orthodox Jewish groups.
Foxman wrote or co-wrote several books, including Never Again? The Threat of the New Anti-Semitism (2003), The Deadliest Lies (2007), Jews and Money (2010) and Viral Hate (2013), an early warning about online hate. He was the subject of Yoav Shamir's 2009 documentary Defamation. France named him a Knight of the Legion of Honour in 2006.
He retired in 2015 and was succeeded by Jonathan Greenblatt, becoming national director emeritus. From 2016 to 2021 he was vice chair of the board of trustees of the Museum of Jewish Heritage in New York. In 2020, for the first time, he publicly endorsed a presidential candidate, Joe Biden. He kept speaking until the end; at the Days of Remembrance ceremony at the US Capitol in April 2025 he said his "antenna quivers" at book bans and the demonising of immigrants.
Abraham Foxman died on 10 May 2026 in a Manhattan hospital, aged 86. The cause of death was not made public. His funeral was held at Park Avenue Synagogue on 12 May 2026. He was survived by his wife Golda, his children Michelle and Ariel, and four grandchildren. His grandson Gideon recalled him saying he felt obligated to make something of himself "so that all the other Jewish children who perished in the Holocaust didn't die in vain".
Biography adapted from Wikipedia; The New York Times (Joseph Berger, 2026-05-10); Jewish Telegraphic Agency (2026-05-10, 2026-05-12); ADL press release (2026-05-10); The Times of Israel; AP; JNS. Wikipedia ↗
In their own words
“She risked her life. She saved my life.”
On his nanny Bronisława Kurpi, The New York Times, 1991
“If you don't believe you can change people's hearts and minds, why bother? If you are not going to try and change hearts and minds, why are you in this business at all?”
The New York Times, 2020
“If you don't let them change, then you become the bigot.”
On accepting apologies, quoted by the Associated Press
“We don't have a slow season in our business. What we deal with is words. We've learned that words have the power to kill.”
To JTA on becoming national director, 1987
“I have been very lucky. To get up every morning and to have an opportunity to try to make a difference in both fighting hate and building love, wow. I have been very privileged.”
To JTA on his retirement, 2015
“As a survivor, my antenna quivers when I see books being banned.”
Days of Remembrance ceremony, US Capitol, 2025

From social media
6Posts by Abraham, and posts about them, kept here so they are not lost.