I don't really follow soccer, never have, but my son did, back in the nineties out on Long Island, and he used to come home talking about this assessor, Kleinstauber, who'd stand on the sideline with his clipboard and tell the refs afterward exactly what they'd missed. My son said he was fair, never raised his voice. I think about how much quiet work like that goes unnoticed, decades of it, nobody clapping, and then you read a little obituary like this one and it's three sentences and that's the whole public record of a man's life's work. 72 years old I think, or close to it. Anyway. Rest well, sir, whoever you were to all those boys my son played with. edit: fixed his name, I had it wrong at first
Their story
Klaus Kleinstauber was a German-born American soccer referee who reached the rank of U.S. National Referee and officiated in the original Major Indoor Soccer League and the third incarnation of the American Soccer League. Later in life he became a U.S. Soccer national assessor and an MLS stadium observer, and…
Klaus Kleinstauber was a German-born American soccer referee who reached the rank of U.S. National Referee and officiated in the original Major Indoor Soccer League and the third incarnation of the American Soccer League. Later in life he became a U.S. Soccer national assessor and an MLS stadium observer, and he spent decades mentoring young match officials in the New York area.
He was born in Germany and emigrated to the United States after the Second World War. He served in the U.S. Army during the Korean War. When he decided to take up refereeing, his stated goal was to become a national referee within five years, according to the veteran New York referee Brendan Mullarkey.
Kleinstauber worked at the top of the American game in the 1970s. On 2 August 1971 he was an assistant referee, with Gino D'Ippolito in the middle, for an international friendly between Pele's Santos FC and Deportivo Cali of Colombia. He was one of the original MISL referees. His first indoor assignment came by chance, when a Philadelphia official got stuck in traffic at the Verrazzano Bridge and could not reach Nassau Coliseum in time for a New York Arrows game. The league's head of officials telephoned Kleinstauber, who said he was going to have dinner and then go to the game, and was told he was now the referee. He went on to the MISL travel list and also served as a goal judge at Arrows games.
He was known as a strict but fair referee who took no nonsense from players. He served as president of the New York Soccer Referees Association, and as a national assessor he evaluated and coached up-and-coming officials. Mullarkey said he was from the old school and would not sugarcoat it when a referee had done a poor job.
Klaus Kleinstauber died on 28 October 2026, aged 90. He lived in Hauppauge, New York. His death was reported by FrontRowSoccer.com on 30 October. Visitation was arranged at Moloney's Hauppauge Funeral Home on 1 November, with burial at St. Charles Cemetery in Farmingdale the following day.
Biography adapted from FrontRowSoccer.com (Michael Lewis) and Moloney's Hauppauge Funeral Home.
In their own words
“I'm going to have dinner and go to the game at the Coliseum.”
Kleinstauber's reply when the MISL head of officials called him, before he was assigned to referee a New York Arrows game, as recounted by Brendan Mullarkey to FrontRowSoccer.com
