My brother called me from Manila just to tell me. 88. Didn't even know he was sick.
Their story
Kristoffer Kristofferson was born on June 22, 1936, in Brownsville, Texas, the oldest of three children of Mary Ann (née Ashbrook) and Henry Kristofferson, a U.S. Army Air Corps officer who rose to major general in the U.S. Air Force and later worked as a manager for Saudi Aramco. His…
Kristoffer Kristofferson was born on June 22, 1936, in Brownsville, Texas, the oldest of three children of Mary Ann (née Ashbrook) and Henry Kristofferson, a U.S. Army Air Corps officer who rose to major general in the U.S. Air Force and later worked as a manager for Saudi Aramco. His father hoped he would follow him into a military career. The family moved often before settling in San Mateo, California, where Kris graduated from San Mateo High School in 1954. At 17 he spent a summer working for a dredging contractor on Wake Island in the Pacific.
At Pomona College he majored in literature, studied under the philosopher Frederick Sontag, won prize essays published in The Atlantic, and starred in rugby, American football and track, appearing in Sports Illustrated in 1958. He graduated summa cum laude and Phi Beta Kappa that year and won a Rhodes Scholarship to Merton College, Oxford, where he earned a B.Phil. in English literature in 1960. In England the promoter Larry Parnes tried to sell him as "a Yank at Oxford," and he cut unsuccessful records as "Kris Carson."
In 1961 he married Frances "Fran" Beer and joined the U.S. Army. He completed Ranger School and helicopter pilot training, served as a captain with the 8th Infantry Division in West Germany, and played with a band at service clubs. There he met Marijohn Wilkin, the aunt of his platoon commander. In 1965, with an assignment to teach English at West Point waiting, he used a two-week leave to visit Wilkin in Nashville and decided instead to become a country songwriter. He resigned his commission, a choice that strained his relationship with his parents.
The Nashville years were hard. He tended bar, worked construction, swept floors as a janitor at Columbia's studios and, after his second child was born with health problems, flew helicopters to Gulf of Mexico oil rigs for Petroleum Helicopters International in Louisiana, writing songs in the air. To get Johnny Cash's attention he famously landed a helicopter on Cash's property. Cash championed him, brought him to the 1969 Newport Folk Festival, and recorded "Sunday Mornin' Comin' Down," which won the Country Music Association's Song of the Year in 1970. Roger Miller cut "Me and Bobby McGee," Ray Price and Sammi Smith had hits with "For the Good Times" and "Help Me Make It Through the Night," and Janis Joplin's posthumous recording of "Me and Bobby McGee" became a No. 1 pop hit in 1971. Fred Foster signed him to Monument Records, even though Kristofferson protested that he sounded like a frog.
His own albums, starting with Kristofferson (1970) and The Silver Tongued Devil and I (1971), brought a literary, confessional honesty to country music and helped open the door to the outlaw movement. "Why Me" topped the country chart in 1973 and sold over a million copies. He married singer Rita Coolidge that year, and their duets won two Grammy Awards. In all he won three competitive Grammys from 13 nominations, and in 2014 he received the Grammy Lifetime Achievement Award.
He was also a film star. After his debut in Dennis Hopper's The Last Movie, he played the lead in Cisco Pike (1972), worked three times with Sam Peckinpah in Pat Garrett and Billy the Kid, Bring Me the Head of Alfredo Garcia and Convoy, appeared in Martin Scorsese's Alice Doesn't Live Here Anymore, and won a Golden Globe for Best Actor opposite Barbra Streisand in A Star Is Born (1976). The costly failure of Michael Cimino's Heaven's Gate (1980) dented his Hollywood standing, but John Sayles's Lone Star (1996) revived it, and a new generation knew him as the vampire hunter Abraham Whistler in the Blade trilogy.
From 1985 to 1995 he recorded and toured with Johnny Cash, Waylon Jennings and Willie Nelson as the Highwaymen, whose cover of "Highwayman" reached No. 1 on the country chart. He entered the Nashville Songwriters Hall of Fame in 1977, the Songwriters Hall of Fame in 1985 and the Country Music Hall of Fame in 2004. In 2016 his wife said that memory problems long blamed on Alzheimer's disease had turned out to be Lyme disease. His final studio album, The Cedar Creek Sessions, was nominated for a Grammy in 2016.
A self-described "dove with claws," he stayed proud of his military service while opposing the Gulf and Iraq wars, supporting the United Farm Workers, and standing beside Sinéad O'Connor when a Madison Square Garden crowd booed her in 1992. He married Lisa Meyers in 1983 and from 1990 lived on Maui in Hana, which he said reminded him of the Brownsville of his childhood. He retired from performing in 2021. Kris Kristofferson died peacefully at home in Hana on September 28, 2024, aged 88, survived by Lisa, his eight children and seven grandchildren. No cause of death was given. Bob Dylan once said Nashville could be divided into "pre-Kris and post-Kris, because he changed everything."
Biography adapted from https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kris_Kristofferson; family statement via spokesperson Ebie McFarland (NBC News, UPI); The Guardian; Reuters; The Maui News. Wikipedia ↗
In their own words
“I can't sing, I sound like a frog!”
To Fred Foster when Monument Records signed him as a recording artist in 1969
“The great thing about being a songwriter is you can hear your baby interpreted by so many people that have creative talents vocally that I don't have.”
On being honoured as a BMI Icon, 2009
“John was my hero before he was my friend, and anything with his name on it is really an honor in my eyes.”
On receiving CMT's Johnny Cash Visionary Award, 2007
“Part of the reason I came here to live was the sense of family out here. It reminds me of where I grew up in Brownsville, Texas. It's like coming home. I love it here.”
On Hana, Maui, in the documentary One Man, One Voice
“I read the script and I could identify with this cat.”
On accepting his first lead role, in Cisco Pike
“Like a bird on the wire, like a drunk in a midnight choir, I have tried in my way to be free.”
Lines from Leonard Cohen's Bird on the Wire that he asked to have on his tombstone

same, my mum rang me too, didn't expect that