92 years old. that's a whole life given to raising other people's kids right. praying for the Clark family tonight.
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Lee Dora Wide, known to loved ones as "Ms. Pat," was a longtime Memphis, Tennessee resident who died on October 29, 2026, at the age of 92. She was not a public figure in the conventional sense of an entertainer, politician or athlete, and no Wikipedia page or broad media…
Lee Dora Wide, known to loved ones as "Ms. Pat," was a longtime Memphis, Tennessee resident who died on October 29, 2026, at the age of 92. She was not a public figure in the conventional sense of an entertainer, politician or athlete, and no Wikipedia page or broad media coverage exists about her life. What is known comes from her published obituary in The Daily Memphian, which described a woman whose impact was felt quietly, within a family and a church community, rather than on a public stage.
She was born around 1933 or 1934, though her exact birth date has not been published. She graduated from Booker T. Washington High School in Memphis as part of the class of 1953, a historically significant Black high school in the city. She was a longtime member of King Solomon Missionary Baptist Church, and her obituary noted that she had professed her Christian faith from an early age.
For 40 years, Lee Dora Wide worked for the Clark family in Memphis, where her obituary states she raised and cared for all five of the family's children as though they were her own. This long tenure of caregiving appears to have been the defining work of her life, representing decades of steady, personal devotion rather than public achievement. Those who knew her also remembered her love of her family, her dogs, trips to New Orleans, and the celebration of each of her 92 birthdays.
She was preceded in death by her parents, a daughter, her sister Verlene Jones, and her niece Brenda Beale. She is survived by a number of nieces and nephews. No cause of death has been made public, and nothing in the available reporting indicates whether she was married or had other children beyond the daughter who predeceased her.
Lee Dora Wide died on October 29, 2026, in the Memphis area. A graveside service is scheduled to be held on November 5, 2026, at 10 a.m. at Memphis Memory Gardens in Memphis. Because she lived a largely private life, this page reflects only what has been publicly documented in her obituary, and it will be updated if further verified information becomes available.
Biography adapted from News reports and the sources cited on this page; death reported by Legacy | Obituary.
amen to that