78. that's it. thinking of Michele and the kids tonight.
Their story
Rob Reiner was an American actor, director, producer, writer and political activist whose career ran from one of the most watched sitcoms in television history to a run of films that became part of how the world talks, laughs and falls in love. He was born Robert Reiner in the…
Rob Reiner was an American actor, director, producer, writer and political activist whose career ran from one of the most watched sitcoms in television history to a run of films that became part of how the world talks, laughs and falls in love. He was born Robert Reiner in the Bronx, New York City, on 6 March 1947, the eldest child of the comedian, writer and director Carl Reiner and the actress and singer Estelle Reiner. His parents gave him no middle name. The family lived on the Grand Concourse, moved to New Rochelle, New York, and later settled in Los Angeles, where he grew up surrounded by the comedy world his father helped to build.
Reiner made his television acting debut at 14, trained as an apprentice at the Bucks County Playhouse in Pennsylvania, attended Beverly Hills High School and studied at the UCLA Film School from 1964 to 1966 without taking a degree. In the late 1960s he played small parts on shows such as Batman, The Andy Griffith Show and The Beverly Hillbillies, performed improvised comedy, and wrote for The Smothers Brothers Comedy Hour alongside Steve Martin.
In 1971 he was cast as Michael Stivic, the liberal son-in-law of Archie Bunker, on Norman Lear's All in the Family. The series was the most watched programme in the United States for five consecutive seasons, and Archie's nickname for his son-in-law, "Meathead", followed Reiner for the rest of his life. The role won him Primetime Emmy Awards in 1974 and 1978 and five Golden Globe nominations. The same year he married the actress and director Penny Marshall and adopted her daughter, Tracy. The couple divorced in 1981.
Reiner then turned to directing, and his first films formed one of the most celebrated streaks in Hollywood. This Is Spinal Tap (1984), in which he also played the documentary maker Marty Di Bergi, made the mockumentary a mainstream form. It was followed by The Sure Thing (1985), Stand by Me (1986), The Princess Bride (1987), When Harry Met Sally... (1989), Misery (1990) and A Few Good Men (1992), which was nominated for the Academy Award for Best Picture. Kathy Bates won the Academy Award for Best Actress for Misery. In 1987 he co-founded Castle Rock Entertainment, the company behind Seinfeld, The Shawshank Redemption and The Green Mile as well as many of his own films. Three of his films, This Is Spinal Tap, The Princess Bride and When Harry Met Sally..., were selected for the National Film Registry.
While making When Harry Met Sally... he met the photographer Michele Singer. The meeting changed the ending of the film, and the couple married in 1989. They had three children, Jake, Nick and Romy. Later films included The American President (1995), Ghosts of Mississippi (1996), The Story of Us (1999), The Bucket List (2007), Flipped (2010), Being Charlie (2015), which he made with his son Nick, LBJ (2016) and Shock and Awe (2017). He kept acting too, in Sleepless in Seattle, Bullets Over Broadway, The First Wives Club and The Wolf of Wall Street, and on television in New Girl and The Bear.
Reiner was one of the best known progressive activists in American public life. He chaired the 1998 campaign for California's Proposition 10, which created First 5 California to fund early childhood services, and served as its first chairman. With Michele he founded the I Am Your Child Foundation in 1997, helped preserve Ahmanson Ranch as public parkland, and in 2009 co-founded the American Foundation for Equal Rights, which brought the court challenge against Proposition 8, California's ban on same-sex marriage. He campaigned for Democratic candidates over several decades and was an outspoken critic of Donald Trump.
His final completed film, Spinal Tap II: The End Continues, was released in September 2025. On 14 December 2025, Rob Reiner, 78, and Michele Singer Reiner were found dead in their home in Brentwood, Los Angeles. The Los Angeles County medical examiner ruled that both died of multiple sharp force injuries and that the manner of death was homicide. Their son Nick Reiner was arrested that day and charged with two counts of first-degree murder. He has pleaded not guilty, and the case is ongoing.
Tributes came from former presidents Barack Obama, Bill Clinton and Joe Biden, from Stephen King, Billy Crystal, Meg Ryan, Martin Scorsese and many friends and collaborators. Billy Crystal led a tribute to the couple at the 98th Academy Awards in March 2026, and in September 2026 Reiner won a posthumous Primetime Emmy Award for his guest role on The Bear, 48 years after his last Emmy. He is remembered as the son of a comedy giant who became one himself, and as a filmmaker whose lines, from "I'll have what she's having" to "Inconceivable!", are still quoted every day.
Biography adapted from English Wikipedia (Rob Reiner; Killing of Rob and Michele Reiner); AP, NBC News and The Guardian obituaries (December 2025); Variety, CNN, Los Angeles Times and ABC News on the 2026 posthumous Emmy; t. Wikipedia ↗
In their own words
“I don't want to be an elected official, I want to get things done.”
In 2006, declining to run for governor of California.
“I could win the Nobel Prize and they'd write 'Meathead wins the Nobel Prize.'”
On how his All in the Family character's nickname followed him throughout his career.
“My mother didn't have a middle name, my father didn't have one, so they didn't give me one.”
Explaining why he was named simply Robert Reiner.
“I was four years old, and I stayed through both games. I was fascinated. I was hooked at that point.”
Recalling the 1951 Yankee Stadium doubleheader his father took him to, in Mickey Mantle's first season and Joe DiMaggio's last.
“It was so much fun to do. It's fun to act, and I love acting because it's no worries. You just show up and do your work.”
To People in July 2025, on his role in The Bear, which Jamie Lee Curtis encouraged him to take.

78 is no age at all, terrible news