My dad used to play Crying in the car on long drives up the coast, singing along badly in the front seat. Didn't know until years later that Joe Melson wrote that one with Roy. 91 years old, still writing until Father's Day. That's a life.
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Joe Melson was an American songwriter and singer whose partnership with Roy Orbison produced some of the most dramatic and enduring ballads in pop music, including Only the Lonely, Crying, Running Scared, Blue Angel and Blue Bayou. Born Claudie Joe Melson on May 11, 1935, in Bonham, Texas, he was…
Joe Melson was an American songwriter and singer whose partnership with Roy Orbison produced some of the most dramatic and enduring ballads in pop music, including Only the Lonely, Crying, Running Scared, Blue Angel and Blue Bayou. Born Claudie Joe Melson on May 11, 1935, in Bonham, Texas, he was often called the unsung hero of songwriting, the man credited with helping to create "the Roy Orbison sound." He died at his home in Nashville on July 1, 2026, at the age of 91, of natural causes, with family close by.
Melson was raised on a farm near Bonham until he was sixteen. He attended high school in Gore, Oklahoma, and in Chicago before returning to Texas, where he studied accounting at Odessa Junior College and worked in the mailroom at Standard Oil. By his teens he was already singing and writing songs, and in the evenings he played dances and nightclubs in West Texas with his rockabilly band, the Cavaliers. The band's crowd-pleaser Raindrops became his debut single.
Both Melson and Orbison were living around Odessa in the late 1950s and knew each other through the local rockabilly scene. As the story is told by The New York Times and the Orbison family, Melson one day noticed Orbison sitting in his car working out a melody on his guitar and tapped on the glass. They began writing together, first at Melson's home in Midland and then in Nashville, around the time Orbison signed with Monument Records. Melson heard something Orbison had not yet used: a voice that could span three octaves with a bluesy, operatic flair.
Their first collaboration, Only the Lonely, became a 1960 smash, reaching No. 2 on the Billboard Hot 100 and No. 1 in the United Kingdom, and is widely regarded as the first operatic rock ballad. It launched Orbison as an international star. The pair followed with Blue Angel and I'm Hurtin' in 1960, then Running Scared, their first No. 1 pop hit, and Crying in 1961. Later songs included The Crowd, The Actress, Lana, Up Town and, in 1963, Blue Bayou. Melson also sang or arranged the inventive background vocals on the hits he wrote with Orbison. In all the two men wrote more than 120 songs together, and they resumed their partnership from 1971 to 1975.
Melson's songs found new life again and again. Sonny James took Only the Lonely to No. 1 on the country chart in 1969. Linda Ronstadt turned Blue Bayou into a massive international hit in 1977, and Don McLean's version of Crying was a major hit in 1981. Orbison and k.d. lang later recorded Crying as a Grammy-winning duet. Away from Orbison, Melson co-wrote Run, Baby Run (Back Into My Arms), a 1965 hit for the Newbeats, and Cry Softly Lonely One with Don Gant, Don Gibson's Ever Changing Mind, and Glenn Barber's country hits I'm the Man on Susie's Mind, Unexpected Goodbye and Love Songs Just for You.
He kept his own recording career going as well, releasing singles on Hickory Records from 1960 to 1963, the best known being Hey Mister Cupid, and recording for other labels through the decades. He performed at rockabilly revival and nostalgia festivals and was a familiar figure on the music scene in Hendersonville, Tennessee. In 2014 he released a triple A-side single with the Australian singer Damien Leith, and the two kept writing together.
Recognition came late but came in full. Only the Lonely entered the Grammy Hall of Fame in 1999 and Crying followed in 2002. That same year Melson was inducted into the International Rock-A-Billy Hall of Fame in Jackson, Tennessee, where he was credited with the creation of the Roy Orbison sound. In 2018 he was inducted into the Nashville Songwriters Hall of Fame. "I've paid my dues to make it!" he said when the honor was announced.
Melson was married three times. His first two marriages, to Susie Mills and Dagmar Frazier, ended in divorce, and in 2025 he married his longtime fiancee, Julie Tan. He was survived by her, his children Michael Melson, Michelle Byerly, Melodie Garner and Serena Aaker, grandchildren, great-grandchildren and his sister Katie Bethel. He was writing songs until just weeks before his death. At his request there was no memorial service, and he asked that one message be shared: "Dad loves you all. Don't cry for me. Remember me when I was alive."
Biography adapted from The New York Times / Clay Risen (July 18, 2026, via Boston Globe); MusicRow / Robert K. Oermann (July 13, 2026); American Songwriter (July 13, 2026); Hendersonville Memory Gardens obituary; joemelson.. Wikipedia ↗
In their own words
“I've paid my dues to make it!”
Melson on the announcement of his induction into the Nashville Songwriters Hall of Fame in 2018 (joemelson.com).
“Dad loves you all. Don't cry for me. Remember me when I was alive.”
The message Melson asked his family to share after his death, in place of a memorial service.
“In 1959, a young songwriter named Joe Melson tapped on the window of Roy's car in West Texas. Roy was sitting there, guitar in hand, working out a melody the way he often did. That knock on the glass changed everything.”
Tribute from the Roy Orbison family and estate, July 2026.
“Joe heard something in Roy, a voice built for heartbreak, for the operatic, for songs that didn't just tell a story but ached.”
Roy Orbison estate tribute, July 2026.
“It is with profound sadness I must inform that my father in law, Joe Melson, has passed on to write better songs (if that can be done).”
Son-in-law and manager Dwayne Byerly announcing the death on Facebook, July 2026.

My mum too, every Sunday drive without fail