told my mom and she just said "the pony guy" and went quiet for a bit
Their story
John Raymond Killacky was an American artist, curator, arts administrator and Vermont state legislator. He led the Flynn Center for the Performing Arts in Burlington for eight years, was earlier a nationally known defender of artistic freedom as curator of performing arts at the Walker Art Center in Minneapolis, and…
John Raymond Killacky was an American artist, curator, arts administrator and Vermont state legislator. He led the Flynn Center for the Performing Arts in Burlington for eight years, was earlier a nationally known defender of artistic freedom as curator of performing arts at the Walker Art Center in Minneapolis, and later served two terms in the Vermont House of Representatives for South Burlington. He died of metastatic prostate cancer at his home on 2 November 2026, aged 74.
He was born on 24 June 1952 on the South Side of Chicago, the third of five children in an Irish Catholic family whose men worked at the city's stockyards. After seeing the Alvin Ailey company on a school trip he decided to become a dancer. He danced with Chicago Moving Company, won a scholarship to Harkness Ballet in New York at 20, moved into modern dance and toured with Winnipeg's Contemporary Dancers before, as he put it, stumbling into arts administration.
He managed the Laura Dean and Trisha Brown dance companies, ran the PepsiCo Summerfare festival and worked as a program officer at the Pew Charitable Trusts. From 1988 to 1996 he was curator of performing arts at the Walker, presenting more than 5,000 artists. His 1994 presentation of Ron Athey's Four Scenes in a Harsh Life put him at the centre of the national culture war over federal arts funding. He went on to lead Yerba Buena Center for the Arts in San Francisco, spent seven years at the San Francisco Foundation, and in 2010 moved to Vermont to run the Flynn, where he grew the budget and nearly doubled the endowment while opening the theatre to low-income and neurodivergent audiences.
In 1996 surgery on a spinal cord tumour left him paralysed. He taught himself to stand again using a mirror, as he had as a dancer, and walked with a cane for the rest of his life. Disability and the AIDS crisis, which took 119 of his friends, became central themes of his films and installations. He coedited the Lambda Literary Award winning anthology Queer Crips: Disabled Gay Men and Their Stories and published a collection of his writing, because art.
In the legislature he was lead sponsor of the 2021 resolution apologising for Vermont's state sanctioned eugenics. Diagnosed with terminal cancer in early 2026, he kept making art to the end. He is survived by his husband, Larry Connolly, and four siblings.
Biography adapted from Wikipedia (CC BY-SA 4.0), Seven Days, Burlington Free Press obituary, johnkillacky.com. Wikipedia ↗
In their own words
“Freedom of expression is a more precious commodity than taste.”
Lecture at Brown University, 2016

that story always got me too, the pony letting him dance again