81. That's the number that stops me. Never read him in German but the obituaries alone make me wish I had. Thinking of his wife and children today.
Their story
Joseph von Westphalen was a German writer, satirist and columnist, one of the sharpest and most playful voices in German letters from the 1980s onward. Living in Munich, he made his name with polemical newspaper pieces he called "Entrüstungen", or outbursts of indignation, aimed at every fashion of the age,…
Joseph von Westphalen was a German writer, satirist and columnist, one of the sharpest and most playful voices in German letters from the 1980s onward. Living in Munich, he made his name with polemical newspaper pieces he called "Entrüstungen", or outbursts of indignation, aimed at every fashion of the age, and with a series of novels built around his hedonistic alter ego, the aristocratic former diplomat Harry von Duckwitz.
He was born Joseph Graf von Westphalen on 26 June 1945 in Schwandorf in the Upper Palatinate, seven weeks after the end of the Second World War, in which his father had been killed. He came from the ancient noble Westphalen family, whose line also includes Jenny von Westphalen, the wife of Karl Marx. He grew up in Munich and from 1966 studied literature and art history at the Ludwig Maximilian University there. In 1978 he earned his doctorate with a thesis on the figure of the failing poet, supervised by Werner Vordtriede.
From 1979 to 1981 he worked for the collecting society VG Wort, and he then became an editor at the cultural magazine Westermanns Monatshefte. In 1987 he became a freelance writer. His books carried provocative titles such as Warum ich Monarchist geworden bin (1985) and Warum ich Terrorist geworden bin (1989), and in 1990 he published Von deutscher Bulimie, subtitled a futile polemic against German unity. The Duckwitz novels began with Im diplomatischen Dienst in 1991. He also published an exchange of letters with the novelist Monika Maron, and in 1989, under the pseudonym David Elphinstone, the mock scholarly book Sinecure. In the 1990s he was among the first German authors to experiment with multimedia and the internet, releasing the CD-ROM Mein Kosmos in 1996.
For years he also wrote more than three hundred weekly columns titled Der Flaneur for the Munich Abendzeitung, the last appearing in June 2014. He joined PEN Centre Germany in 1992 and received the Munich Ernst Hoferichter Prize the same year. He was married and the father of two children.
Joseph von Westphalen died on 29 October 2026 at the age of 81. The Süddeutsche Zeitung marked his death with an obituary by Willi Winkler titled "Ein freier Geist" (A free spirit), remembering him as an anarchistic count and a great enthusiast for revolutions. The cause of death was not made public.
Biography adapted from Wikipedia (de, CC BY-SA 4.0), Süddeutsche Zeitung obituary by Willi Winkler, Munzinger. Wikipedia ↗

Same, didn't know the name until this morning and now I want to find a translation.