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Their story
McKenna Rose Wendel, known to her family and friends as Kenna, was born on January 30, 2012, in Sioux Falls, South Dakota, to Marisa Wendel. She was raised in Sioux Falls by her grandparents, Ralph and Rose Wendel, whose home her family described as a home base for all the…
McKenna Rose Wendel, known to her family and friends as Kenna, was born on January 30, 2012, in Sioux Falls, South Dakota, to Marisa Wendel. She was raised in Sioux Falls by her grandparents, Ralph and Rose Wendel, whose home her family described as a home base for all the kids and grandkids, filled with family, laughter and love. Her obituary said she was the center around which her grandparents' lives revolved.
From a young age, her family wrote, it was clear McKenna had a vibrant personality and a zest for life. She loved being outdoors, climbing trees, playing in the park and riding her bike. She could often be found digging in the dirt for critters or catching tadpoles to bring home as pets. She spent a great deal of time trying to convince her grandma to adopt lizards, frogs and any other small creature that caught her eye. They finally settled on two hermit crabs and a sheepadoodle named Iris. When the hermit crabs died, McKenna held a funeral for them and had her Papa make a cross for their burial. At George McGovern Middle School she even kept a cricket habitat inside her locker.
McKenna and her grandparents were members of the Rosebud Sioux Tribe (Sicangu Lakota Oyate), and they often attended powwows together. She loved the singing and the sound of the drums, and her family helped her develop a deep pride in her Native American heritage. In 2024 she rode on top of a truck down Phillips Avenue in the Sioux Falls Native American Day parade, where Argus Leader photojournalist Samantha Laurey photographed her.
She was a devoted big sister to Kinsley and Roman. Entering junior high she played volleyball and basketball, and she made friends easily. Her closest friend, Aaliyah Brandis, met her through the school's Native American club in fourth grade. The two loved sleepovers, making dance videos, listening to music and watching the sunset, and they talked about their futures, their first car and whether they might one day live in Seattle or New York. Friends remembered her quick wit, her encouraging words and her ability to light up even the quietest room. Her eighth grade teacher, Brigid Berger, described a cheerful and social student who made the people around her feel special and seen.
McKenna left her grandparents' home on March 13, 2026, and was last seen in Sioux Falls early on March 14. Her grandparents reported her missing on March 15. Her obituary and a later federal indictment both give March 14, 2026, as the day she died. She was 14. After a search that reached Brookings County, Rock County in Minnesota and Lyon County in Iowa, her body was found in rural Brookings County on the morning of March 19. Federal investigators later said they believe she died of a cocaine overdose in northern Iowa. Official autopsy findings have not been released.
Her disappearance and death drew grief and attention across South Dakota and beyond. Hundreds came to her wake at Heritage Funeral Home, where the Wakiyan Sapa Singers drum group performed prayer songs, and to a Missing and Murdered Indigenous People vigil at Van Eps Park on March 25. The Sioux Falls School Board held a moment of silence. On March 26 mourners wearing pink and purple, her favorite colors, filled the Church of the Good Shepherd for her funeral, and a traditional Lakota star quilt draped her casket before a large police-escorted procession carried her to her burial in Sioux Falls.
In June 2026 a federal grand jury in the Northern District of Iowa charged her uncle, Mark Milk, with federal crimes tied to her death, including distributing the cocaine that prosecutors say killed her. Milk had been serving a life sentence for a 1993 manslaughter until then-Governor Kristi Noem commuted it in 2023, and he was on parole in 2026. A Brookings man, Jon Rogness, later pleaded guilty to concealment and accessory charges, and in October 2026 a third man, Kevin Chapman, was charged with conspiracy to distribute cocaine resulting in death. Milk pleaded not guilty and his trial is set to begin on December 28, 2026. The case also prompted Governor Larry Rhoden to announce tighter parole supervision in South Dakota.
McKenna is survived by her grandparents, Ralph and Rose Wendel; her mother, Marisa Wendel; her siblings, Kinsley and Roman; her cousin, Warner Wendel; her uncle, Drake, and his children, Alayona and Kenai. She was preceded in death by her beloved uncle, Reid Wendel. In the words of her family, her sweet, gentle nature and fun sense of humor will be cherished and greatly missed.
Biography adapted from Obituary (Heritage Funeral Home, Sioux Falls, via Legacy.com); South Dakota Searchlight (John Hult, 2026-06-18); CBS News/AP (2026-06-19); USA Today and Argus Leader (2026-03-26); Dakota News Now (202.
In their own words
“McKenna's sweet, gentle nature and her fun sense of humor will be cherished and greatly missed. She was the center around which her grandparents' lives revolved. She touched the hearts and lives of all who knew her.”
Her family's obituary, March 2026
“She loved the singing and the beautiful sounds of the drums.”
Her obituary, on going to powwows with her grandparents
“My clearest memories are the way she was able to make the people around her feel special and feel seen.”
Teacher Brigid Berger, tribute at her funeral, March 26, 2026 (USA Today)
“I feel like she understood a lot of my problems faster than other people would. She's really, really funny.”
Best friend Aaliyah Brandis to Dakota News Now, June 2026
“There are no cases that we investigate that are more heart-wrenching and more tragic than the ones that involve children or the death of a child.”
FBI special agent Gene Kowel, announcing charges, June 18, 2026 (AP)

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