43. that's it. just read this on my lunch break and can't stop thinking about the five kids
Their story
Nathaniel J. Spychala of Holdingford, Minnesota, died at his home on 8 September 2026 at the age of 43. A mechanic for Knife River and a devoted husband and father of five, he was remembered in his Daniel Funeral Home obituary as a tinkerer who could mend almost anything and…
Nathaniel J. Spychala of Holdingford, Minnesota, died at his home on 8 September 2026 at the age of 43. A mechanic for Knife River and a devoted husband and father of five, he was remembered in his Daniel Funeral Home obituary as a tinkerer who could mend almost anything and as a family man whose favorite hours were spent at dinners, games, movies and travel with the people he loved.
He was born on 19 January 1983 in St. Cloud to Jeffrey Spychala and Michelle Shaw. He graduated from Sauk Rapids High School in 2001 and from St. Cloud Technical College in 2005, then built a working life around practical skill. At Knife River he served as a mechanic, and relatives said the same hands-on talent spilled into carpentry, plumbing, electrical work, sewer work and cooking. Friends and family described a man who took things apart to understand them and put them back together, sometimes better than before, whether the project was a four-wheeler, a go-kart, a bike or a car.
Away from the shop he collected vintage finds from Gopher Bargain Center and Savers: lanterns, old bicycles, sewing machines, knives, kitchen appliances, trinkets and made-in-the-USA forks and spoons. The habit fit a broader love of craftsmanship and everyday American objects. In 2010 he married Maria Suico; they made their home in Holdingford and raised Abigail, Mariel, Aiden, Faye and Delilah. His mother was described in the family notice as his best friend, and he is remembered as a caring son and sibling as well as a loving husband and father.
Funeral arrangements were handled by Daniel Funeral Home in St. Cloud. Visitation was held at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Catholic Church in Opole, and a Mass of Christian Burial was celebrated there on 17 September 2026, with burial in the parish cemetery. He was preceded in death by grandparents Richard Shaw, Joan Peterson, and Sylvan and Delores Spychala. Memorials were preferred in lieu of flowers.
In a region where many lives are measured in quiet competence rather than headlines, Spychala's story is that of a skilled worker and young father whose absence is felt first at the kitchen table and the shop bay. Neighbors, coworkers and relatives who signed his guestbook asked that his family be comforted, and the parish Mass gathered the community that had known him since childhood in the St. Cloud and Holdingford area.
Those who worked beside him at Knife River and those who only met him over a borrowed tool or a thrift-shop find described the same steady competence. He did not seek a public platform; the record of his life is the funeral notice, the parish Mass and the gratitude of a young family that depended on him. In that sense his memorial belongs with countless Central Minnesota workers whose names surface in local obituaries and then live on in the people they raised.
Biography adapted from Daniel Funeral Home & Cremation Service (St. Cloud) obituary; Legacy.com republication.
In their own words
“More than anything though he was a great son, a caring sibling and a loving husband and father.”
Daniel Funeral Home family obituary
“His mom was his best friend.”
Closing line of the family obituary
“He was a true tinkerer at heart.”
Family description of his hobbies and trade skills

same, I had to reread the age twice