My uncle went the same way, complications from a stroke, so this one hit different today. We had Shogun on tape and wore it out one summer at my grandmother's house. Ninety years is a long beautiful life but it still stings when it's the same thing that took someone you loved.
Their story
George Richard Chamberlain was born on March 31, 1934, in Los Angeles, California, the second son of Elsa Winnifred (née von Benzon) and Charles Axion "Chuck" Chamberlain, a shop equipment salesman from Indiana who later ran a refrigerator business. He grew up with his older brother, William, graduated from Beverly…
George Richard Chamberlain was born on March 31, 1934, in Los Angeles, California, the second son of Elsa Winnifred (née von Benzon) and Charles Axion "Chuck" Chamberlain, a shop equipment salesman from Indiana who later ran a refrigerator business. He grew up with his older brother, William, graduated from Beverly Hills High School in 1952 and earned a bachelor's degree in art history and painting from Pomona College in 1956. He was then drafted into the United States Army and served from 1956 to 1958, reaching the rank of sergeant while stationed in post-war Korea.
Back in Los Angeles he helped found the theater group Company of Angels and began picking up guest roles on television. In 1961 NBC and MGM cast him as the young intern Dr. James Kildare in Dr. Kildare, opposite Raymond Massey. The series ran until 1966 and made him one of the biggest teen idols of the decade. His singing also took off: the "Theme from Dr. Kildare (Three Stars Will Shine Tonight)" reached No. 10 on the Billboard Hot 100, and he recorded albums for MGM Records.
When Dr. Kildare ended he set out to be taken seriously as an actor. He went to England, worked in repertory theater, appeared in the BBC's The Portrait of a Lady (1968) and in 1969 played Hamlet at the Birmingham Repertory Theatre, the first American to play the role there since John Barrymore in 1925. He reprised Hamlet for the Hallmark Hall of Fame in 1970, and the recording earned a Grammy nomination. Films followed, including The Madwoman of Chaillot with Katharine Hepburn, The Music Lovers (as Tchaikovsky), Lady Caroline Lamb (as Lord Byron), The Three Musketeers (1973) and The Four Musketeers (1974) as Aramis, The Towering Inferno (1974), The Slipper and the Rose (1976) and Peter Weir's The Last Wave (1977).
From the late 1970s he became known as the "King of the Mini-Series." He starred in Centennial (1978), Shōgun (1980), for which he won a Golden Globe, and The Thorn Birds (1983), in which he played Father Ralph de Bricassart opposite Rachel Ward and Barbara Stanwyck and won another Golden Globe. He played Allan Quatermain in King Solomon's Mines (1985) and its sequel, was the first actor to play Jason Bourne in the 1988 television film The Bourne Identity, and returned as Aramis in The Return of the Musketeers (1989). Across his career he won three Golden Globe Awards, was nominated for four Primetime Emmy Awards and two Drama Desk Awards, and received a Grammy nomination.
In later decades he worked mostly on stage, in television films and as a guest star. He played Henry Higgins in the 1993 to 1994 Broadway revival of My Fair Lady, Scrooge on a national tour, and King Arthur in the national tour of Spamalot in 2008 and 2009. Younger audiences knew him from Will & Grace, Nip/Tuck, Desperate Housewives, Leverage, Chuck, Brothers & Sisters and Twin Peaks: The Return (2017).
Chamberlain never married and had no children. To protect his privacy and his career he did not speak publicly about being gay for most of his life. A French magazine outed him in 1989, and he confirmed it himself in his 2003 memoir Shattered Love. He was romantically involved with actor Wesley Eure in the 1970s, and in 1977 began a long relationship with actor and producer Martin Rabbett. They lived together in Hawaii from 1986, separated amicably in 2010, and later resumed living together in Hawaii. The New York Times described Rabbett as his only immediate survivor.
Richard Chamberlain died on March 29, 2025, in Waimānalo, Hawaii, from complications following a stroke, two days before his 91st birthday. His publicist Harlan Boll confirmed the death. Rabbett said in a statement, "Our beloved Richard is with the angels now. He is free and soaring to those loved ones before us." He is remembered as the television heartthrob who turned himself into a serious classical actor and the face of the great American miniseries.
Biography adapted from https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Richard_Chamberlain.
In their own words
“It's complicated. There's still a tremendous amount of homophobia in our culture. It's regrettable, it's stupid, it's heartless and it's immoral, but there it is.”
Interview with The Advocate, December 2010
“Personally, I wouldn't advise a gay leading man-type actor to come out.”
Interview with The Advocate, December 2010
“I mean, love is love and attraction is attraction.”
On playing gay and straight characters, The Advocate, 2010
“Our beloved Richard is with the angels now. He is free and soaring to those loved ones before us. How blessed were we to have known such an amazing and loving soul.”
Martin Rabbett, statement after his death, March 2025

So sorry for your uncle too. Stroke recovery is so cruel sometimes.