Didn't expect this to hit me, but it did. Read about Zabar's in some New York food writing years back, the bit where he said there was real excitement in food after leaving the law firm. Ninety four. Just sat here thinking about that line.
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Stanley Zabar was a principal owner of Zabar's, the family food store at Broadway and West 80th Street that grew into one of New York City's best known culinary landmarks. A lawyer by training, he ran the financial, legal and real estate side of the business for more than seven…
Stanley Zabar was a principal owner of Zabar's, the family food store at Broadway and West 80th Street that grew into one of New York City's best known culinary landmarks. A lawyer by training, he ran the financial, legal and real estate side of the business for more than seven decades while his older brother Saul ran the shop floor. He died at his home in Manhattan on 9 November 2026, aged 94.
Stanley Jerome Zabar was born in Brooklyn on 19 August 1932 and moved to Manhattan with his family when he was two. His parents, Louis and Lillian Zabar, opened the business in 1934 and at one time ran five small stores along Broadway, later consolidated into the single store that still stands on the Upper West Side. In 1950, while he was a student at the University of Pennsylvania, his father died. He left to help run the store with Saul, transferred to New York University, graduated in 1953 and earned a law degree from Brooklyn Law School three years later, attending classes in the morning and working at Zabar's until 9 p.m.
Until 1972 he combined the store with full time legal work, as a partner at a law firm and as house counsel at the retail group Rapid-American. He added a master's degree in taxation from NYU School of Law in 1961, but came to see the store as his destiny. With Saul and their partner Murray Klein, who joined as a partner in 1960, he helped turn Zabar's into a powerhouse of appetizing. He managed the real estate holdings that protected and expanded the store, was an architect of its mail order business and website, and helped build its prepared foods section and its large cheese trade.
Recognisable in a Zabar's baseball cap and carrying a tote bag, he was also a familiar presence in the store, greeting customers and keeping an eye on details down to the coleslaw. "Zabar's means to me a place to go," he said on the store's podcast in 2021. "A place where all the personnel are like family."
He married Judith Segal in 1952. Together they supported Hunter College, where the Zabar Art Library opened in 2008. Their daughter Lori, a preservationist and historian, died in 2022. Saul Zabar died in 2025 at 97.
His daughter Dr. Sondra Zabar said the cause of death was cancer. The store called him "a quiet force behind our family business," and Manhattan Borough President Brad Hoylman-Sigal said New York had lost a Manhattan icon. He was survived by his wife, his daughter Sondra, his son David, a manager at Zabar's, eight grandchildren and two great grandchildren.
Biography adapted from The New York Times (Richard Sandomir), CBS New York, ABC7 New York, JTA, Dignity Memorial.

That line stuck with me too, the law firm clients caring more that he was a Zabar than the deal itself.