My dad called me about this one, didn't even say hello first, just "Toby Keith died." We're thousands of miles apart and that's still how we talk to each other. Red Solo Cup was playing at every family barbecue I can remember.
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Toby Keith Covel, known to millions as Toby Keith, was an American country music singer, songwriter, record producer, actor and businessman from Oklahoma. Born on July 8, 1961, in Clinton, Oklahoma, he grew up mostly in Moore, a suburb of Oklahoma City, after a few early years in Fort Smith,…
Toby Keith Covel, known to millions as Toby Keith, was an American country music singer, songwriter, record producer, actor and businessman from Oklahoma. Born on July 8, 1961, in Clinton, Oklahoma, he grew up mostly in Moore, a suburb of Oklahoma City, after a few early years in Fort Smith, Arkansas. Summers at his grandmother's supper club in Fort Smith first pulled him toward the bandstand, and he got his first guitar at eight.
Before music paid the bills he worked the Oklahoma oil fields as a derrick hand and rose to supervisor. At 20 he formed the Easy Money Band with friends, playing bars and roadhouses, and sometimes had to leave a gig mid-set when the oil field paged him. When the oil industry slumped in 1982 he played defensive end for the semi-pro Oklahoma City Drillers, then went back to music full time on the honky-tonk circuit of Oklahoma and Texas.
A flight attendant who loved his demo tape passed it to producer Harold Shedd, who signed him to Mercury Records. His debut single, "Should've Been a Cowboy", went to number one on the Billboard Hot Country Songs chart in 1993 and became one of the defining country songs of the decade. Hits such as "Who's That Man", "Me Too", and "How Do You Like Me Now?!", the number one country song of 2000, followed. At DreamWorks Nashville in the early 2000s he hit his commercial peak with "I Wanna Talk About Me", "My List", "Beer for My Horses" with Willie Nelson, "I Love This Bar", "American Soldier" and "As Good as I Once Was".
After his father, Army veteran H. K. Covel, was killed in a road crash in March 2001 and the September 11 attacks followed that autumn, Keith wrote "Courtesy of the Red, White and Blue (The Angry American)". The song became a number one hit, a rallying anthem for many service members, and the centre of public disputes with ABC's Peter Jennings and with Natalie Maines of the Dixie Chicks. Keith performed for U.S. troops on 11 USO tours between 2002 and 2013, visiting 15 countries and three naval ships.
In 2005 he founded his own label, Show Dog Nashville, later Show Dog-Universal Music, and he opened the Toby Keith's I Love This Bar & Grill restaurant chain. He acted in Broken Bridges (2006) and wrote and starred in Beer for My Horses (2008). His later hits included "She Never Cried in Front of Me", "God Love Her", "American Ride", "Made in America" and the viral "Red Solo Cup". Forbes put him on its cover in 2013 as "Country Music's $500 million man".
Across his career he scored 42 top 10 country hits, released 19 studio albums and sold more than 44 million albums worldwide. He received seven Grammy nominations, entered the Songwriters Hall of Fame in 2015 and received the National Medal of Arts on January 13, 2021.
Keith married Tricia Lucus in 1984. He adopted her daughter Shelley, and the couple had a daughter, Krystal, who also became a country singer, and a son, Stelen. In 2006 he set up the Toby Keith Foundation, which in 2013 opened the OK Kids Korral, free housing for children being treated for cancer in Oklahoma City and their families. He called it his greatest accomplishment.
In June 2022 he revealed he had been diagnosed with stomach cancer and had spent six months in chemotherapy, radiation and surgery. He returned to the stage in September 2023 to accept the first Country Icon Award at the People's Choice Country Awards, singing "Don't Let the Old Man In" to a standing ovation, and played his final shows at Park MGM in Las Vegas that December. Toby Keith died peacefully in his sleep in Oklahoma on February 5, 2024, aged 62, surrounded by his family. Hours later he was elected to the Country Music Hall of Fame, and he was inducted later that year.
Biography adapted from https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Toby_Keith ; https://www.cnn.com/2024/02/06/entertainment/toby-keith-death ; https://people.com/all-about-toby-keith-children-8559436.
In their own words
“My father was a soldier. He taught his kids to respect veterans.”
On why he performed for U.S. troops overseas
“I don't apologize for being patriotic. If there is something socially incorrect about being patriotic and supporting your troops, then they can kiss my ass on that, because I'm not going to budge on that at all.”
Newsday interview, January 2007
“My party that I've been affiliated with all these years doesn't stand for anything that I stand for anymore.”
To CMT, October 2008, on becoming an independent
“This is a special charity to me. I saw firsthand how a child's cancer diagnosis can devastate a family. Please join me in supporting these kids through Ally's House.”
On Ally's House
“I don't apologize for performing for our country or military. I performed at events for previous presidents Bush and Obama and over 200 shows in Iraq and Afghanistan for the U.S.O.”
Statement after his 2017 pre-inaugural performance
“I've spent the last six months receiving chemo, radiation and surgery. So far, so good. I need time to breathe, recover and relax.”
Announcing his stomach cancer, June 2022

same, my uncle texted me before I even saw the news myself