83 years old. I came to Elegies late, maybe ten years ago, after my own mother died, and it was the only thing that made sense to read for a while. Thinking of Beth, Robbie and Lillias tonight.
Their story
Douglas Dunn was a Scottish poet, critic, editor and teacher who wrote some of the most admired British poetry of the late 20th century. Born in Inchinnan, Renfrewshire, on 23 October 1942, he trained as a librarian, worked beside Philip Larkin at the University of Hull, and first made his…
Douglas Dunn was a Scottish poet, critic, editor and teacher who wrote some of the most admired British poetry of the late 20th century. Born in Inchinnan, Renfrewshire, on 23 October 1942, he trained as a librarian, worked beside Philip Larkin at the University of Hull, and first made his name with Terry Street (1969), a collection of poems about a working class street of back to back houses in Hull. He reached his widest audience with Elegies (1985), a sequence written after the death of his first wife, Lesley, which won the Whitbread Book of the Year. He went on to teach at the University of St Andrews for nearly two decades, founding its Scottish Studies Centre and building one of Britain's most respected creative writing programmes.
Dunn grew up in a village on the south bank of the Clyde. His father, William, worked for a tyre company, and his mother was Margaret, née McGowan. There were few books at home, but his maternal grandfather, a Co-op baker in Hamilton, was a self taught reader who knew the poetry of Robert Burns, and his grandparents introduced him to Scottish novelists. English was his best subject at school, but weak results in maths and science kept him out of a Scottish university. He went to work for the Renfrew county library service instead, trained at the Scottish School of Librarianship in Glasgow, and became an assistant librarian at the Royal College of Science and Technology, where the poet Christopher Wiseman introduced him to American poets such as Robert Lowell, James Wright and Donald Justice.
In 1964 he married Lesley Balfour Wallace, whom he had met at a branch library in Renfrew, and the couple left for the United States so he could take a post at Akron Public Library in Ohio. The American years shaped him but ended badly. A close friend was killed in a car crash, another died in Vietnam, and because Dunn held a five year work visa he received draft papers. He left the country after about 14 months and was officially listed as a deserter by the US Army. Back in Scotland he worked at the Joseph Black Chemistry Library in Glasgow before winning a place to read English at the University of Hull in 1966.
He and Lesley bought a one up, one down terraced house in Terry Street for 250 pounds. Dunn took cataloguing work under Philip Larkin at the Brynmor Jones Library, and the two men became friends who talked more about jazz than poetry. Larkin did not even know Dunn wrote poems until 1968, when he sat on the committee that gave Dunn an Eric Gregory Award. In 1969 Dunn graduated with first class honours and Faber published Terry Street, which won the Somerset Maugham Award and a Scottish Arts Council Book Award. Its best known poem, A Removal from Terry Street, ends with the line "That man, I wish him well. I wish him grass."
Dunn left the library in 1971, spent six months in the Dordogne on his Maugham prize money, and then lived as a freelance writer in Hull, reviewing books and writing short stories, television dramas and radio plays. The Happier Life (1972) and Love or Nothing (1974), which won the Geoffrey Faber Memorial Prize, were followed by Barbarians (1979), which he regarded as the start of his mature style. He became the informal centre of a lively Hull poetry scene that included Sean O'Brien, Douglas Houston, Peter Didsbury and Tom Paulin, and in 1982 he edited A Rumoured City, an anthology of Hull poets with a foreword by Larkin.
In 1978 Lesley, by then a senior keeper at the Ferens Art Gallery, was diagnosed with cancer of the eye. She died in 1981, aged 37. That year St Kilda's Parliament won the Hawthornden Prize. Dunn returned to Scotland as writer in residence at the University of Dundee and wrote the poems that became Elegies. Published in 1985, the book won the Whitbread prize for poetry and then the overall Book of the Year, ahead of novels by Peter Ackroyd and Jeanette Winterson. Critics compared it with Tennyson's In Memoriam and Hardy's poems for his first wife. Dunn later said its success was "gratifying in the sense that I knew my wife wasn't going to be forgotten."
He married the wood engraver Lesley Bathgate in 1985, and they had a son, Robbie, and a daughter, Lillias. Northlight (1988) reflected that new domestic life. In 1989 he became writer in residence at St Andrews, and in 1991 Professor of English. In 1993 he founded the university's Scottish Studies Centre and its MLitt in Creative Writing, recruiting John Burnside, Kathleen Jamie, Don Paterson and A. L. Kennedy to teach. Later books included Dante's Drum Kit (1993), the verse novel The Donkey's Ears (2000), The Year's Afternoon (2000), New Selected Poems 1964 to 2000 (2003) and The Noise of a Fly (2017). Dante's Drum Kit, The Year's Afternoon and The Noise of a Fly were all shortlisted for the T. S. Eliot Prize. He also edited The Faber Book of Twentieth Century Scottish Poetry and The Oxford Book of Scottish Short Stories, and translated Racine's Andromache.
Dunn was appointed OBE for services to literature in 2003 and received the Queen's Gold Medal for Poetry in 2013. He retired from full time teaching in 2008 and gave his papers to the University of St Andrews Library. Late in life he married his third wife, Beth, in 2024. He died on 16 October 2026, a week before his 84th birthday, aged 83. Don Paterson called him "the finest Scottish poet of the post-war period" and "a dear friend, mentor and teacher." The place and cause of his death were not made public in the first reports.
Biography adapted from Telegraph obituary (18 Oct 2026); Wikipedia; Nicholas Wroe, Speaking from experience, The Guardian (18 Jan 2003); Poetry Foundation; Poetry Archive; T. S. Eliot Prize; Faber; Britannica; Don Paterson . Wikipedia ↗
In their own words
“That man, I wish him well. I wish him grass.”
Closing line of A Removal from Terry Street, from Terry Street (1969).
“Write out of me, not out of what you read.”
Line from Elegies (1985), spoken in the voice of his late wife.
“I knew my wife wasn't going to be forgotten.”
On the public response to Elegies, Guardian interview with Nicholas Wroe, 2003.
“Almost everything I have written has been dictated by something that has happened to me.”
Guardian interview, 2003.
“Where I came from you didn't ponce around saying you wanted to be a poet.”
On keeping his literary ambitions quiet as a young librarian, Guardian, 2003.
“I'm interested in imperialism; it's an aspect of history that intrigues me.”
Interview with the Scottish Review of Books, 2008.
“The reader has a right to expect these three things simultaneously.”
On his teaching that a good poem must work in the mind, the heart and the ear, quoted by the Poetry Archive.

Elegies got me through something similar. Sorry for your loss too, in a way.