Never his biggest fan but he was so good as the exterminator in Jumanji, that mix of calm and crazy stuck with me. 81 years old. My husband just told me and I had to sit down a minute.
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James Handy was an American character actor whose square-jawed authority made him one of the most recognisable faces in film and television for more than four decades. He was the policeman, the priest, the congressman, the CIA director and the father who did not understand his son, and he played…
James Handy was an American character actor whose square-jawed authority made him one of the most recognisable faces in film and television for more than four decades. He was the policeman, the priest, the congressman, the CIA director and the father who did not understand his son, and he played them all with a quiet decency that made even his villains human. Audiences knew him as Kevin Doneghy, the furious brother-in-law suing the church in Sidney Lumet's The Verdict (1982), as Milton Briggs in Arachnophobia (1990), as the exterminator in Jumanji (1995), as CIA Director Arthur Devlin on Alias and, in one of his last screen roles, as the bartender Jimmy in Top Gun: Maverick (2022).
He was born in New York City on March 19, 1945. He found acting almost by accident, through plays at university, and went on to study English and drama. His professors encouraged him to make a career of it. Before he could, the Vietnam War intervened. Drafted into the U.S. Army, he served from August 1966 to July 1967 with the 196th Light Infantry Brigade in Tay Ninh province. He later spoke of 27 days of heavy combat, of jungle nights so dark that "you couldn't see your hand in front of your face", and of young soldiers "dropping all over the place, screaming for their mothers". He came home a pacifist, convinced that the war was doing no good and that the Vietnamese people were suffering.
Back in New York he committed himself to the stage. He was a member of the Vietnam Veterans Ensemble Theatre Company, where fellow veteran and actor Brian Delate became a friend of more than 40 years, and he played Chris Keller in an Off-Broadway production of Arthur Miller's All My Sons. His screen career began in 1977 with two episodes of the ABC soap Ryan's Hope. His first film was Taps (1981), and the next year Lumet cast him opposite Paul Newman in The Verdict. That role announced a durable new presence, and work followed steadily: Brighton Beach Memoirs, Burglar, Clint Eastwood's Bird, K-9 with James Belushi, Arachnophobia, The Rocketeer, Guarding Tess, Jumanji, Gang Related, Deterrence, M. Night Shyamalan's Unbreakable and 15 Minutes.
Television made him a fixture in American living rooms. He played Matt Fielding Sr., the father of Doug Savant's gay character Matt Fielding, on Melrose Place; Captain Jim Haverhill on NYPD Blue; Lou Handleman on Profiler; Congressman Joseph Bruno on The West Wing; and CIA Director Arthur Devlin across several seasons of Alias. He guest starred on Cagney and Lacey, Matlock, Quantum Leap, Wings, Murder, She Wrote, L.A. Law, Beverly Hills, 90210, The X-Files, Walker, Texas Ranger, Law and Order, ER, Cold Case, The Closer, Criminal Minds, Castle, NCIS: Los Angeles, Rizzoli and Isles and 9-1-1, among many others. Late in life he found new parts in Logan (2017), George Clooney's Suburbicon (2017), the comedy Senior Entourage (2021) and Top Gun: Maverick. His screen credits ran past 140.
Friends described a modest, curious man who lived simply. The screenwriter Carl Kurlander, whose mother was his friend from the 1970s, remembered subletting his spartan New York studio, filled with books and plays and without a television. His friend Jeff Hawks recalled him belting out doo-wop songs in bars. He was outspoken about his own war: he said he hated Forrest Gump because he believed its hero would never have survived Vietnam.
On the morning of June 3, 2026, Handy was found unconscious in the front yard of the Tarzana, Los Angeles, home he shared with his girlfriend, Wendy Gledhill, and her adult son. He had been stabbed in the chest and was pronounced dead at a hospital. He was 81. The Los Angeles County medical examiner ruled his death a homicide caused by a stab wound to the torso and neck compression. Michael Gledhill, 44, his girlfriend's son, was charged with murder. In June 2026 a judge found him mentally incompetent to stand trial, and in July he was committed for psychiatric treatment. The case had not been tried as of October 2026.
His agent, Pam Ellis-Evenas, said she could not have asked for a more talented, humble or gracious client and friend. Brian Delate said that, for two men who had lived "in an arena of killing" in the 1960s, the manner of his death carried a particular resonance. He is remembered as the definition of a working actor: always employed, always believable and, by every account, a kind man.
Biography adapted from https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/James_Handy; https://variety.com/2026/film/news/james-handy-dead-top-gun-maverick-1236767486/; https://www.the-independent.com/arts-entertainment/films/features/james-han.
In their own words
“We had heavy combat for 27 days. You couldn't see your hand in front of your face. Guys were dropping all over the place, screaming for their mothers.”
2013 interview, on Vietnam
“They weren't doing any good over there and the people over there were suffering.”
2013 interview, on why the war made him a pacifist
“I hated Forrest Gump. I just hated that movie. I just thought it was so full of crap. His character, Tom Hanks's, would never have survived Vietnam.”
2013 interview
“I could not have asked for a more talented, humble or gracious client and friend than James Handy.”
Pam Ellis-Evenas, his agent, June 2026
“He was just really a decent guy.”
Jeff Hawks, friend, June 2026
“Because of the nature of how he died and the fact that we lived in an arena of killing back in the '60s, it has a different resonance.”
Brian Delate, actor and fellow veteran, June 2026
“This is not how anyone's life should end, stabbed in the chest and left dying in the front yard of a home.”
Los Angeles County District Attorney Nathan Hochman, June 2026

That scene scared me as a kid honestly