My grandmother died at 88 this spring too, and reading this just put me right back there for a second. Watched Heavenly Creatures on a flight once, had no idea the woman in the news stories was still alive all these years later in Orkney of all places.
Their story
Pauline Yvonne Parker was born on 26 May 1938 in Christchurch, New Zealand, and was known as a child as Pauline Rieper. She became internationally notorious at the age of 16 when, on 22 June 1954, she and her close friend Juliet Hulme killed her mother, Honorah Mary Parker, in…
Pauline Yvonne Parker was born on 26 May 1938 in Christchurch, New Zealand, and was known as a child as Pauline Rieper. She became internationally notorious at the age of 16 when, on 22 June 1954, she and her close friend Juliet Hulme killed her mother, Honorah Mary Parker, in Victoria Park, Christchurch. The case, known as the Parker-Hulme murder case, became one of the most discussed crimes in New Zealand history and later inspired Peter Jackson's 1994 film Heavenly Creatures. After serving her sentence she lived for more than six decades under the name Hilary Nathan, working as a librarian, a teacher of children with special needs and a riding instructor, first in England and later in Orkney, Scotland. She died in Orkney in October 2026, aged 88.
Pauline was the third of four children of Herbert Rieper and Honorah Mary Parker. An older brother died shortly after birth in 1936, her sister Wendy was born in 1937, and a younger sister, Rosemary, was born in 1949 with Down syndrome and grew up in a care home. The family was working class. Her parents had lived together for years but were not married, a fact that only became public at the trial, which is why mother and daughter were referred to by the surname Parker. As a child Pauline suffered from osteomyelitis, and it was a shared history of childhood illness (Juliet Hulme had tuberculosis) that helped draw the two girls together at Christchurch Girls' High School.
Juliet Hulme was the daughter of Henry Hulme, rector of Canterbury University College, and the family lived at Ilam Homestead. The two girls built an elaborate shared fantasy life, writing plays, novels and stories, inventing their own saints and imagining a parallel paradise they called the Fourth World. Pauline's diaries recorded the intensity of the friendship and her growing anger at her mother. In 1954 the Hulme marriage broke down, Henry Hulme resigned, and it was decided that Juliet would be sent to relatives in South Africa. The girls wanted Pauline to go too and believed her mother stood in the way.
On the afternoon of 22 June 1954 the girls took tea with Honorah, aged 45 or 46 according to differing reports, at a kiosk in Victoria Park, then walked with her along a secluded path where they struck her repeatedly with half a brick inside a stocking. They ran back to the kiosk claiming she had fallen. The story collapsed quickly when police found the weapon and Pauline's diary, which recorded the plan. At a sensational trial in Christchurch the defence argued insanity, but on 28 August 1954 the jury found both girls guilty of murder. Too young for the death penalty, they were detained, and Pauline served her sentence largely at Paparua prison near Christchurch. Within months the case was cited by the Mazengarb Report on moral delinquency among the young.
Released in 1959, Pauline took the name Hilary Nathan. She studied at the University of Auckland, graduating BA in 1964, spent a year training and working as a librarian in Wellington, and in 1965 moved to England, where she worked for a time in a London library. She later retrained as a teacher and taught children with learning disabilities at Abbey Court special school in Strood, Kent, becoming deputy headmistress before retiring in the mid 1990s. From 1986 she also ran a children's riding school at Hoo, near Rochester, fulfilling a childhood dream of a country life with horses. She became a devout Roman Catholic and, according to her sister, once hoped to become a nun.
Her identity was publicly reported in 1997, after journalists went looking for her following the success of Heavenly Creatures and the 1994 revelation that Juliet Hulme had become the best selling crime novelist Anne Perry. Parker never spoke to the press. Her sister Wendy said she was deeply remorseful, that she had committed the most terrible crime and had spent decades repaying it by keeping away from people. She later moved to the Orkney Islands, where she ran a horse stable on Burray. Author Peter Graham's 2011 book So Brilliantly Clever reported her life there. It is believed the two women never spoke again after the crime, although both ended up living in the north of Scotland. Anne Perry died in April 2023.
Pauline Parker died in October 2026 at the age of 88. The Orcadian reported on 23 October 2026 that her death had been registered in Kirkwall under the name Hilary Nathan and that she had been living in retirement housing at Braeburn Court in St Margaret's Hope. New Zealand outlets including 1News, Stuff and the NZ Herald reported her death the following day. The cause of death has not been made public, and no funeral arrangements have been announced.
Her life is inseparable from the death of Honorah Parker, whose killing remains the reason the case is remembered. Parker's later decades, spent teaching vulnerable children, teaching riding and living in near silence, have been read by those who knew her as a long act of atonement.
Biography adapted from Wikipedia (Parker-Hulme murder case, CC BY-SA 4.0); The Orcadian (23 Oct 2026); 1News, NZ Herald and Stuff (24 Oct 2026); NZ History; The Guardian (9 Jan 1997); Christchurch City Libraries. Wikipedia ↗
In their own words
“Why could not mother die? Dozens of people, thousands of people are dying every day. So why not mother, and father too?”
Diary entry, 13 February 1954, read in evidence at the 1954 trial (Christchurch City Libraries record)
“I felt very excited and the night before Christmassy last night.”
Diary entry on the morning of 22 June 1954, read in evidence at the trial
“She has led a good life and is very remorseful for what she's done. She committed the most terrible crime and has spent 40 years repaying it by keeping away from people and doing her own little thing.”
Her sister Wendy, speaking to media in New Zealand, as reported in 1996 and 1997
“She is a nun in her way. She's living in solitude. She's deeply religious.”
Her sister Wendy, describing Pauline's life in Kent, 1997

Same, I thought she'd been gone for decades honestly