I only knew her through the ban the box law, read about it years ago for a paper on reentry programs. My mom works with people coming out of prison and she quoted that line to me once, that a minor offense shouldn't mean a lifetime of punishment. Heard she'd died while I was on the phone with her tonight and we just sat with it a while.
Their story
Sandra Bolden Cunningham (1950 to 2026) was an American Democratic politician who represented New Jersey's 31st Legislative District in the State Senate for 16 years, from 2007 to 2024, and rose to become President Pro Tempore of the New Jersey Senate. She was the widow of Glenn D. Cunningham, the…
Sandra Bolden Cunningham (1950 to 2026) was an American Democratic politician who represented New Jersey's 31st Legislative District in the State Senate for 16 years, from 2007 to 2024, and rose to become President Pro Tempore of the New Jersey Senate. She was the widow of Glenn D. Cunningham, the first Black mayor of Jersey City, and she was Jersey City's first African American First Lady. Friends and colleagues remembered her as a dignified presence who put the needs of the poor and dispossessed at the center of her public service.
Sandra Bolden was born on September 4, 1950, and grew up in Newark, New Jersey. Her father, Anderson Bolden, was a private in the Marine Corps and a Montford Point Marine, whom she honored publicly on Veterans Day as "one of the chosen few." She graduated from Newark's West Side High School and earned a bachelor's degree from Bloomfield College. She then enrolled at the New York Academy of Theater Arts hoping to become an actress, and she was part of the Negro Ensemble Company. She later laughed about losing an off-Broadway musical part because, as she put it, "I can dance, but I can't sing." After a few more near misses and the long commute from Newark, she chose something more stable.
Her next jobs all had a community thread. She worked for the American Red Cross, for the Essex County executive, for the Essex County Bar Association, and as community and public relations coordinator for Essex-Newark Legal Services. She also served as deputy director of the Metropolitan Ecumenical Ministry and taught grammar and high school students about the courts through Montclair State College. In 1988 she became executive director of the Hudson County Bar Association in Jersey City. When she arrived the association had about 300 members and no salaried staff; under her leadership membership more than tripled, and she created and produced "Legalities," a cable access show that explained legal services to ordinary residents.
It was while interviewing candidates for that show on election night in 1989 that she met Glenn Cunningham properly, at Casino in the Park. He asked her to lunch on his birthday, September 16, 1990. They dated for eight years and married on January 7, 1998, in Nassau, Bahamas. They shared a love of Civil War history, genealogy, old movies and weekend trips to Gettysburg. When Glenn ran for mayor in 2001 she was his campaign scheduler and constant companion, and after his victory she joined the Jersey City Library Board of Trustees and the Jersey City Museum Board.
Glenn Cunningham died of a heart attack on May 25, 2004, while serving as both mayor and state senator. Sandra Cunningham became president of the Sandra and Glenn D. Cunningham Foundation, which gave scholarships, book money and mentors to Hudson County students who might not otherwise reach college. In 2007, with the backing of the Hudson County Democratic Organization, she defeated Assemblyman Louis Manzo in the Democratic primary for her late husband's 31st District seat. A special convention chose her on October 23, 2007, to finish Senator Joseph Doria's term, she won the general election with about 88 percent of the vote, and she was sworn in on November 8, 2007. She was the first woman elected to the Legislature from the 31st District.
In Trenton she served as Majority Whip from 2008, Deputy Majority Leader from 2018, and President Pro Tempore from January 2022, a post that placed her sixth in the line of succession to the governorship. She chaired the Senate Higher Education Committee and sat on the Budget and Appropriations and Labor committees. Her signature cause was the "second chance." She was the Senate sponsor of the Opportunity to Compete Act, New Jersey's "ban the box" law signed by Governor Chris Christie on August 11, 2014, and the primary sponsor of a three-bill expungement reform package that Christie signed in December 2017. She also sponsored the 2018 law that opened state financial aid to DREAMers and a 2020 law helping people leaving prison obtain identification, food assistance and Medicaid.
Her career also had difficult chapters. She pleaded guilty in 2006 to driving under the influence after a 2005 incident, and she was charged with drunk driving again in March 2021 after sideswiping parked cars near her home; that case was later dismissed after prosecutors said they lacked the evidence to prove it. From June 2022 she was absent from the Senate as her cognitive health declined, and a court appointed a guardian to manage her affairs. She did not seek re-election in 2023, and her term ended in January 2024, when colleagues paid tribute to her on the Senate floor. Senate Majority Leader Teresa Ruiz called her "really a cowgirl" who loved horses and time on a ranch.
Sandra Bolden Cunningham died on October 6, 2026, at the age of 76, as reported by Insider NJ and Hudson County View. The cause of death was not made public. Just three weeks earlier, Jersey City had honored her husband's 83rd birthday with a proclamation that also recognized her own service. Hudson County Commissioner Bill O'Dea wrote that she never tried to become Glenn: "She was Sandra."
Biography adapted from Insider NJ (2026-10-07); Hudson County View (2026-10-07, 2017-12-21); Wikipedia; Hudson Reporter (2001-12-26); NJ Senate Democrats press release (2007-11-08); Observer/PolitickerNJ (2011); New Jersey . Wikipedia ↗
In their own words
“Today marks a joyous occasion where I can continue to carry on the legacy of my husband.”
On being sworn in to the New Jersey Senate, November 8, 2007
“A minor criminal offense should not lead to a lifetime of punishment. These laws are about removing barriers for residents and helping them to overcome the obstacles that exist in finding employment, taking care of their families and setting their lives on the right path.”
Statement after Governor Christie signed her expungement reform package, December 2017
“DREAMers are an integral part of our state, and for many of these young people it is the only home they've known.”
On the signing of the DREAMers financial aid law, May 9, 2018
“One of the biggest barriers facing the reentry community upon release is lack of photo identification, which is needed to apply for general assistance, housing, or employment.”
On S-2331 becoming law, July 2020
“I can dance, but I can't sing.”
Explaining to the Hudson Reporter why her acting career stalled, December 2001
“The average citizen is intimidated by the lawyer.”
On her work at the Hudson County Bar Association, Hudson Reporter, 2001
“We used to take weekend trips to Gettysburg. Lying on the beach is boring.”
On her marriage to Glenn Cunningham, Hudson Reporter, 2001
“In honor of the memory of my late husband Corporal Glenn D. Cunningham and my father Private Anderson Bolden, a Montford Point Marine one of the chosen few, I am proud to take this moment to honor our Marines for their dedication to service. Semper Fi!”
Post on X, November 10, 2021

that line stuck with a lot of people, it should have been on a plaque somewhere