Ran a camp I went to when I was maybe eleven or twelve, out in Arizona somehow, and he'd stay after everyone left just rebounding for you until your shot looked right. Never once rushed a kid. 43 years old, that's nothing.
Their story
Michael Damien Sweetney was born on 25 October 1982 and grew up in Oxon Hill, Maryland, outside Washington, D.C. At Oxon Hill High School he became a Washington Post All-Met Player of the Year, a powerful, skilled forward whose rebounding and low-post scoring made him one of the region's most…
Michael Damien Sweetney was born on 25 October 1982 and grew up in Oxon Hill, Maryland, outside Washington, D.C. At Oxon Hill High School he became a Washington Post All-Met Player of the Year, a powerful, skilled forward whose rebounding and low-post scoring made him one of the region's most watched prospects. Georgetown University offered him a place in a long tradition of Hoya big men, and he arrived on the Hilltop as a Top 50 recruit ready to carry a program still adjusting after John Thompson's retirement.
In three seasons at Georgetown from 2000 to 2003, Sweetney averaged 18.2 points and nearly 55 percent shooting. As a freshman he helped the Hoyas reach the NCAA Tournament regional semifinals. As a sophomore he averaged 19 points and 10 rebounds and earned first-team All-Big East honors. His junior year was extraordinary: 22.8 points and 10.4 rebounds a game, the only player in the nation that season to rank in the top 20 in both scoring and rebounding, NABC second-team All-American recognition, and a place among Georgetown's all-time leaders in points, rebounds and blocks despite leaving after only three years.
The New York Knicks selected him ninth overall in the 2003 NBA Draft, in a class led by LeBron James. Sweetney played two seasons in New York and two with the Chicago Bulls, appearing in 233 regular-season games with career averages of 6.5 points and 4.5 rebounds. Weight and conditioning battles shortened his NBA runway. After brief returns to Celtics summer league and training camps, he rebuilt a long overseas career in China, Puerto Rico, Venezuela, Uruguay and beyond, and later appeared in The Basketball Tournament and the BIG3.
Away from the court, Sweetney spoke openly about depression after the sudden death of his father during his early NBA years, about a suicide attempt, and about recovery through family, faith and treatment. He turned that honesty into advocacy, visiting schools and programs to talk about mental health. From 2019 he served as an assistant coach at Yeshiva University and as a girls varsity coach at the Ramaz School, remembered by colleagues as a presence who checked on friends in crisis and showed up for students and charity work.
His wife, India, announced his death on 17 September 2026. He was 43. No cause was released. Tributes from the Knicks, Georgetown fans and the New York Jewish basketball community remembered a soft-spoken giant whose later purpose mattered as much as his draft pedigree. He is survived by India and their children.
Biography adapted from Wikipedia (Michael Sweetney); Basketball-Reference; Georgetown Basketball History Project; Daily Mail / family statement via India Sweetney; Yeshiva University Athletics; Washington Post (2016 mental .
In their own words
“To know Mike Sweetney was love to him. No one loved him more and he loved no one more than his family.”
India Sweetney, Facebook announcement of his death, September 2026
“The world lost a giant today. I lost a close friend. The basketball world lost a beloved star.”
Elliot Steinmetz, Yeshiva University head coach, September 2026
“Michael was an incredible person who will be missed by many. Our thoughts are with his family.”
New York Knicks statement, September 2026

he did that for my nephew too, patient like that