I don't really know what to say. I never met her, never lived in Seattle, but I read about the cafe her parents ran and just sat with that for a while. 95 years is a whole world.
Their story
Dolores Dasalla Sibonga was born Dolores Dasalla Estigoy on 12 August 1931 on Vashon Island, Washington, and raised in Seattle's Chinatown-International District, where her parents Maria and Victoriano Estigoy ran the Estigoy Cafe. The cafe served Filipino cannery workers, known as manongs, along with a wide mix of neighborhood customers.…
Dolores Dasalla Sibonga was born Dolores Dasalla Estigoy on 12 August 1931 on Vashon Island, Washington, and raised in Seattle's Chinatown-International District, where her parents Maria and Victoriano Estigoy ran the Estigoy Cafe. The cafe served Filipino cannery workers, known as manongs, along with a wide mix of neighborhood customers. Those early years shaped her sense of belonging, hard work, and respect for people often overlooked by the city's mainstream.
After Garfield High School she entered the University of Washington, graduating with a journalism degree in 1952 as one of the first Filipino Americans to do so. She worked in radio and television in Spokane and later at KIRO-TV and KOMO-TV in Seattle, producing documentaries and earning an Emmy nomination. With her husband Martin Sibonga she later co-published the Filipino Forum, a community newspaper that covered civil rights and urged united minority action.
When Martin lost his job as a Boeing illustrator, he encouraged her to try a University of Washington summer program for ethnic minorities interested in law. She entered UW Law School, graduated, and in 1973 became the first Filipino American admitted to the Washington State Bar. She worked as a public defender, as a legislative analyst for the King County Council, and as a deputy secretary and later executive of the Washington State Human Rights Commission.
In 1978, after urging from community political mentor Ruth Woo, Sibonga was appointed to the Seattle City Council to fill a vacancy left by Phyllis Lamphere, becoming the first woman of color to serve on the council. She did not seek to finish that short interim term, then won election in 1979 and served until 1992. She chaired committees on personnel, parks, finance, and labor; pushed the city's first affirmative action plan; and sponsored a 1984 ordinance granting reparations to Japanese American city employees fired during World War II. She was the lone no vote on tax breaks for a new basketball arena when the SuperSonics threatened to leave. A 1989 mayoral bid failed, and she chose not to seek reelection in 1992.
After leaving the council she returned to law practice and served on the Washington Horse Racing Commission and the state Human Rights Commission, and for two decades on the King County Board of Appeals. In 2017 she and Joan Yoshitomi founded the Ruth Woo Emerging Leaders Fellowship to open government internships to young people from disadvantaged backgrounds. She received the International Examiner Lifetime Achievement Award in 2023 and published her memoir, The Best Adobo in Town: From Cafe to City Council. In August 2026 Seattle and King County proclaimed Dolores Sibonga Day in her honor. She died on 16 September 2026 at age 95, remembered as a pathbreaker for Filipino Americans, women of color, and civil rights in Seattle.
Biography adapted from Wikipedia; Northwest Asian Weekly (16 Sep 2026); HistoryLink Essay 1319; International Examiner; Post Alley; Washington Senate Resolution 8631; Seattle Municipal Archives.
In their own words
“Dolores is from that generation of firsts who broke down barriers, and defined leadership as a woman of color and as an Asian American.”
Teresita Batayola, former CEO of International Community Health Services, quoted by Northwest Asian Weekly after Sibonga's death
“Dolores was a once-in-a-lifetime leader who overcame great odds to become the first of many achievements. She will remain in our hearts forever.”
Elaine Ikoma Ko, former executive director of Interim CDA, quoted by Northwest Asian Weekly
“I try to learn something from everyone. Every person has value. I learned that from the manongs in Chinatown.”
Dolores Sibonga, speaking to Ron Chew of the International Examiner around her 95th birthday in 2026
“As I've said before, I've been lucky, very lucky. The door opens and I go through it.”
Dolores Sibonga to Ron Chew, International Examiner, September 2026
“She always asked the perfect question.”
Art Ceniza, her legislative aide, recalled in Jean Godden's Post Alley profile

same, that detail about the manongs got me too